Miss Cassie is a sexy blonde Professional Domme who specializes in rope bondage. We were introduced to her via her appearances on the Clare Fonda websites, but Miss Cassie does plenty more, as youll read. We think Miss Cassies fans will recognise her personality from this interview in which she gives us some full and frank answers as well as educating us. These questions are meant as a follow up to Miss Cassies bio. Miss Cassie was kind enough to answer our questions in June 2016

Did you have an interest in BDSM before you became a fetish model and started performing as a rope bottom? What first attracted you to the idea of BDSM?

Its hard to explain what caused my initial intrigue because I really dont know, I can only guess. I grew up watching westerns and recently while watching reruns of Daniel Boone realized just how much rope bondage and other things that could be BDSM related appear in the old western shows of the 50s, 60s, 70s. My favorite cartoon as a child was Dudley Do Right, which involves a lot of classic Damsel in Distress (DiD) scenarios. Some of the things I saw I tried on my siblings and friends when we played. Then of course there was my fascination with Harry Houdini the escape artist. When I was around 8 or 9 years old I stumbled across my uncles Wicked Wanda comics, thats when I realized that sex happened outside the traditional Husband/Daddy/Wife/Mommy ideal my very sheltered world wanted me to believe and it was really naughty. I had my first BDSM spanking scene when I was about 27 years old. I was walking with my lunch date back to his car, he was an older gentleman and was quite respectful, certainly seemed benign. When we got into the car he told me just how much he enjoyed our lunch and was wondering if I would be open to indulging him in a role play game he really liked. It peaked my curiosity and since he didnt want sex I said sure why not. He asked if he could give me a bare handed spanking on my bare butt laying across his lap while he called me dirty names. I liked it.

I imagine being a rope bottom is a bit like riding a rollercoaster. Were you nervous at first? How was your first time?

I wasnt nervous as a rope bottom, I had a boyfriend who after the initial circus fuck stage of our relationship was over asked if I was open to trying something kinky. That was my first introduction to a safe word, sensory deprivation, bondage, spreader bars and blind folds. I was in my early thirties and it gave me a thirst for bondage I didnt know had.

You teach various aspects of BDSM, I imagine its very different from teaching in a school/college. Rope bondage can be very pretty, and obviously restraining, but it also seems very technical, especially with something like suspension. With the right teacher can anyone pick it up? How long have you been involved with rope?

Rope Bondage is a skill like a sport or art form. You can learn many aspects of it, not every one feels the need to suspend, most just want to learn some things to enhance the intimate relation between them and their mate/s. I share an opinion with many of my fellow riggers that one should practice as many ties as possible on the ground before ever considering taking their rope bottom off the ground, for most people thats about a year of practicing, taking classes and studying. We all know that a good teacher can be really helpful but its all going to come down to how much a person wants to put into learning this skill. It does require some spacial reasoning, physical coordination, memorization and discipline, so it is possible that this may be difficult to learn for some people. Ive always played with rope a bit, circa 1992/93 when my boyfriend tied me to that bed I developed a passion for rope bondage and became very interested in learning more about BDSM. I been seriously involved in rope for almost 25 years.

What would be the one piece of advice you would give to anyone thinking about getting into rope bondage?

If someone is interested in learning about rope bondage, please get some education about rope bondage safety, some instructions for some basic ties (like a book, video, tutorial, classes for example) and learn a bit about basic anatomy so you dont cut anyones circulation off, put to much pressure on a nerve area, bend a joint the wrong way or past your bottoms ability to bend. Make sure you have some safety scissors and have cell phone signal when you play, just in case something happens beyond your control and ability to handle.

In your experience do people who are kinky go from one kink to another, or do they tend to find out what they like and stick with that?

Some people just know their kink right away and thats their bliss. Many others are curious or under educated and need to learn or transition to what really speaks to their inner kinkster. Like anything in life, people grow, grow up, discover new things or re discover old passions. Sometimes they just move on because it was a phase or fad to them, not what they were seeking or it wasnt what they thought it would be.

I imagine a lot of what you do now is teaching/instructing/doing the tying, are you still on the receiving end?

Im rarely ever on the receiving end. Sometimes Im asked to bottom for different projects, the last film I rigged for I was both the rope top and the bottom, I rigged one of their actors, then tied and suspended myself dressed in typical DiD wear, then a quick costume change and I was a Femme Domme Fatale who tied a helpless man to a rack torturing him in all sorts of delightful ways. So occasionally in a professional capacity I will switch. On the lifestyle side of things Im a Domme, I pretty much had the masochist beat out me years ago, so I no longer feel that need to submit.

Do you prefer top or bottom?

I prefer to Domme/Dominate/Top.

How does an online session work?

For on line web cam sessions and/or lessons, we chat briefly via email or phone about what they are looking for, rules and negotiate the fee which depends on what they are requesting. Then we schedule a session and take care of the agreed upon session fee.

Are you still learning in terms of kinkiness? Is there anything that you want to try out that you havent already tried?

Kink Education, yes Im always learning new things. BDSM is an old tradition and Ive been very fortunate to meet old guard, new guard, leather traditionalists, old school mistresses, new sensations and there are always new toys. I do have some things I desire to learn, things that are no longer in vogue on a different level, but for now that is my yummy delirious secret for me to savour as I see fit.

This website is primarily focused with spanking. It seems like during a spanking it would only take a handkerchief or neck tie to ties someones wrists or cover their eyes. Once you do that youre almost at BDSM. Is it a similar buzz to be restrained on-the-fly during a spanking and getting restrained in BDSM, or is it a completely different feeling?

Some people like to mix spanking with restraints and some dont. Just like some are only into bare handed OTK and others love paddles, brushes, switches, belts and other implements. The feeling is as individual as the people that are playing. Ive played with total spankos with absolutely no need of restraints and played with those that if I didnt restraint their limbs I was at risk of injury because of their flailing. BDSM is in the eye of the beholder, I know lots of people that do kinky things in their bedroom and have no clue that it may be BDSM stuff. From a practical stand point other than securing limbs because you have a kicker, there doesnt seem to be many who combine the two things together.

Any spanking experiences growing up?

I did get spanked as a child until I was around 10 years old for discipline reasons, nothing particularly exciting most people spanked their kids then as well as the nuns at my grade school when necessary. Most spankings were bare handed, the last couple of years there was a progression of wooden paddles. We were allowed to keep our pants on, the worst part was never the spanking. It was the freaking mind games and yelling that went with it to teach you a lesson.

Did you start off with adult spanking as a top or bottom? How was the first time?

As an adult I started from the bottom, see question one for my first experience.

Weve seen you in some spanking scenes on the internet. For you what would make the perfect spankee? Or, who would you like to spank? Or, who most needs a spanking?

I prefer to spank but I like to play too and I love an ample booty. One that has plenty of well distributed padding so I can spank from mid thigh to the meaty gluts, a beautiful female booty that has just the right amount of bounce so you can make it twerk and dance. Im more into who wants a spanking then who needs a spanking.

I think its possible to be a spankee without doing any acting, technically all youd have to do is lie over the knee. But, I think being a top requires some acting skills with the scolding and such. Are you naturally strict?

I can be very strict and stern. I like discipline, manners, protocol and order. Im also capable of complete kaos and spontaneity. Depends on my mood and the other players involved in the scene as to what direction our whimsy may go.

What makes a good spanking scene?

Energy, commitment and passion make for a good spanking scene. If someone is just going through the motions your can tell, makes me wants to do something to get a reaction out of them, like poke them with a hat pin, lol just kidding. Ive been very lucky that the women Ive played with really enjoy what they do. Ive worked with some fabulous directors and cameramen that really know how to make the spanking experience fun, full of life.

Anything spanking related youd refuse to do?

I no longer switch or bottom for clients professionally because many years ago a man came in who wanted the typical school girl discipline scene. He promised he would warm me up properly before using paddles. He had some very, very hard wood paddles with no give. I had been spanked for so long I could really feel how hard he was hitting me. I was so bruised I couldnt sit down for almost 2 months, after him and a few other untrained sadists I made the decision to only Domme professionally after that and the only people who touch my booty are other professionals who understand if you dont damage the talent.

Do you like it when people top from the bottom?

I wont play with anyone who tops from the bottom, I will either call the scene or gag them.

What does call the scene mean?

Call the scene means stop or end the scene.

You have a show on Talking Sex Radio called Naughty or Nice, sounds like a lot of fun, weve just listened to the show with Jack Steel. Can you tell us about your show please?

My show Naughty or Nice with Miss Cassie was on the TSR Network from Feb 2014 through June 2015, the TSR Network is currently on hiatus and Im not sure when we will return to the air. It was a live web tv talk show with a chat room for our audience to talk, comment and ask questions. I interviewed so many people in the Kink community and Kink friendly communities. It was a total blast and my guests were fabulous! I had Mistresses, Dungeon owners, BDSM Educators, BDSM Celebrities, Musicians, Photographers, Fetish Models, Toy Makers, Activists, Tattoo Artists, Body Piercers, Event Promoters and others. We learned, we laughed, we shared, we had so much fun!!!!

Have I missed anything out? What does the future hold for Miss Cassie?

Im currently a Professional Dominatrix and Im on staff at Sanctuary Studios LAX. I also teach rope bondage classes there twice a month and I teach every week on Wednesdays in North Hollywood at The Lair de Sade. I love teaching, please go to Miss Cassie Loves Rope if youd like to find out more information about my skills, sessions, lessons, classes and how to contact me for sessions, lessons, classes, performances, events, modeling/acting or rigging. For the future I have many projects Im working on and expect to launch soon, so stayed tuned this is going to be a fun ride!

This is our first interview for a while but Miss Cassies awesome answers have inspired us to attempt to do some more quite soon. Thanks Miss Cassie, and we hope everyone enjoyed the interview.

2016 Spank Place

While readers of this website may only be aware of Snow Mercy from her internet spanking scenes, Snow Mercys blog tells us that shes also a professional dominant, fetish model, multimedia artist, radio personality, film television actress, photographer, videographer, video editor, film director, scholar, humanitarian, and world traveler. With naturally dark hair and porcelain skin it seems like Snow was born for the world of kink. Not only is she beautiful, tall and shapely but she is also very intelligent with a great sense of humour. Snow works as a dominant at The Dominion and has many interests outside of spanking, as we discovered. Snow Mercy was kind enough to answer our questions in June 2012

I’ve read that you had an interest in BDSM from a young age. What came first for you, the spanking or the BDSM?

I was primarily into spanking and simple rope bondage as early as 4 or 5 years old.

Did you start off with one fetish and broaden out or did you try everything from the start?

I started with spanking and rope bondage, mixed with role play. Later I met someone who was skilled in many areas of BDSM, some of which I had no idea that existed, like mummification. That’s the time when I really dove into bdsm. He and I started going to local Hollywood BDSM clubs where I picked up more skills.

What was your first BDSM experience? Top or bottom?

Bottom for many, many years. It never occurred to me to be a top until I started working at The Dominion, L.A.’s longest running dungeon.

Is there any conflict between getting spanked and being a dominant?

Well, in the strict sense of BDSM, yes there is conflict. A domme is not someone who gets spanked. It’s a submissive role to be spanked.

You are tall, shapely, beautiful and sophisticated. These matters always depend on the level of tolerance of the other person, but do you also bring the pain?

Thank you! You are very kind. I’m a sensual sadist. I am known to dish out pain when it is carefully negotiated in a safe, sane way. I’m very strong and can deliver quite a lot of impact.

There will be dominants who have different styles but generally, what makes a good domme?

This question, “What makes a good domme?” is often discussed and I hear a lot of opinions. I’ll attempt to give my take on this subject.

A “good domme” can be any gender, size, shape, age, and can come from any background. Anyone is eligible. It seems the single, unifying qualities I see in good dommes are confidence, self-control, responsibility, humility, and compassion.

Confidence is probably the most important quality I try to teach to people I mentor who wish to be dommes. It’s easier to be confident if the person understands how to use implements with skill, knows the limits of the environment/sub/self, and is open to the experience.

Self-control—some dommes lack it and this can lead to boundaries getting crossed, injuries, and feelings being hurt.

Responsibility for the safety of others, the relationships involved or evolving, play space, finances, environment, schedules, etc., make a domme into a good domme. There is always a time and place for everything. If a domme makes His/Her sub miss work because a scene was too demanding or has visible marks, or if a domme leaves behind a play space a mess isn’t being responsible.

Being able to admit to mistakes, being able to make compromises like, “No, you don’t have to call me Master in front of your grandma,” being able accept constructive criticism, and not boasting are very desirable traits in a good domme.

Compassion. If a domme lacks compassion…run away!

I often hear, “The best domes were the best subs,” but this isn’t entirely true. Some dommes I know and respect never played as a sub.

I could probably write a whole book on this subject, but I’ll end here.

Is spanking just a form of BDSM or do spanking people want different things to normal BDSMers?

I often find spankers/spankees will separate themselves from BDSM. It might be because BDSM involves so many forms of play that if a pure spanker includes this label, then it’s assumed the person is interested in more than spanking. However, I believe spanking is a form of BDSM. Specifically, it’s a form of impact play.

I’ve read that you met a dominatrix at a fetish club and decided to apply to The Dominion after plucking up courage. How did you get into being in front of the camera in spanking movies?

This is true. Before I ever considered doing spanking movies, I spent a lot of time doing fetish modeling. I also did a lot of acting here in Los Angeles. So the cross-over was natural after Dallas of dallasspankshard.com asked me to star in a movie. I had gotten to know and trust Dallas, so I felt comfortable working with him on a movie. It seemed like a good way to branch out and reach an audience that shares my enthusiasm for spanking and make new friends. It worked!

How would you describe your relationship with spanking?

Happy and healthy!

What do you like about being spanked?

What I like depends on the person, situation, the relationship, my mood, etc. All of it interests me. Sometimes I want to send somehow back home with lasting memories, so I deliver an especially hard spanking. Sometimes I need a good release that only strict discipline mixed with pain can offer. It varies.

Does being spanked turn you on?

Yes, but shhh…don’t tell anyone.

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