ILIASM Forum | ILIASM Forum

Time 2020-11-14 15:03:48

Web Name: ILIASM Forum | ILIASM Forum

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Welcome You've reached the "ILIASM Forum".This is an active support community for men and womendealing with the causes and effects of living in a sexless marriage. Sexless marriages may be entirely devoid of intimacy, but the term is used clinically to include couples who engage in sex fewer than 10 times per year. The causes are many, but the effects are generally detrimental, and in some cases devastating. What is "ILIASM"? It stands for "I Live In A Sexless Marriage". If that applies to you, then you probably need this site. Where can you turn for support and understanding with your sexless marriage? Counseling (both individual and marital therapy) can have some benefit, but is not a cure-all. (This is actually often discussed on the forum.) Your family and friends may not be able to understand the depth of your suffering, or you may be reluctant to share intimate details... especially if you feel no one will believe you or show due sympathy. There are books and advice websites galore which propose other ways to fix your situation. We offer not a fix but support: first of all, the support in knowing that a normal healthy sex life is a reasonable expectation in a marriage. Second, we offer the wisdom of how to deal with the burdens you may be carrying, as we've been there, too. We'll share stories, resources, and lend an ear, a hand, or a shoulder. Third, we offer you insights and options. But only you can decide what is best for you. This is a moderated forum: the community has posted Guidelines outlining what is allowed on the site and expectations of a supportive decorum. Volunteer moderators encourage all to provide earnest and well-meaning support. However, there is no "party line" here. There are many voices, many opinions, and many options. It is up to you to share enough of your experiences so that you can receive the input you need. Feel free to start browsing the message boards in the forum to consider if you'd like to participate. (Non-members can read the posts, but not interact.)Membership is free, but you must be 18 years or older to register.Registered members may participate in discussions by asking questions, posting supportive answers, or commenting on other posts. To browse now, continue to the main Forum page. This the "Shoutbox" -- basically a site-wide, group chat. (It's only visible to members.) Oct 15, 2020 16:05:44 GMT -5 jerri: I got sex! Yeah, baby! Snoopy dancing! Ah, the sweet heat of a man! Yummy. Masks on and not facing each other, but hey! Oct 16, 2020 3:22:07 GMT -5 vickie: If you want to try counseling you can. If that don't work. I would leave. Because his controlling ways will not stop.I was married to one for 16yrs.He was controlling & physically & mentally abusive. Oct 29, 2020 4:48:34 GMT -5 worksforme2: Looking out the window it seems the forecast was right about a tropical storm warning for NC. Just look at that wind and rain !!!!! Oct 31, 2020 4:39:18 GMT -5 worksforme2: Thanks jerri'....I was without power for about 40 hours due to a # of poles falling victim to trees blowing over. My poor dog had the worst of it, she was scared so badly she would not go out. Oct 31, 2020 9:30:37 GMT -5 jerri: Oh, NO!!! That's a long time! Just long enough to ruin your food! Poor baby! The dogs that are left outside! The people who have had trees fall on their homes! Nov 3, 2020 21:14:19 GMT -5 kittydupree: I just joined b/c someone in another group mentioned this. What is going on here? Is this for actual help or just for bitching and moaning about how life sucks? I’d like to talk with real people whose marriages are “good” except for the lack of sex. Nov 6, 2020 5:05:03 GMT -5 mirrororchid: Welcome, kittydupree. This is a site of tough love, humor, self-improvement and realization, tactics, legal advice, sex and dating advice, statistics, research, entertainment, cheerleading, and...okay, some bitchin'. Maybe sign in at the "Welcome" thread? Nov 6, 2020 5:29:10 GMT -5 kittydupree: Hey Mirrororchid, is 11/11 really your birthday- mine too!!! Thanks for the info, I guess I was expecting something more structured and organized. No worries, I’ll find my place here. Nov 8, 2020 21:11:50 GMT -5 mrg: Hi kittydupree, I think my marriage is “good” but we’ve not had sex for over 4 years which really sucks. I will not leave her but I hate that we have absolutely no intimacy at all. I miss it a lot and some days are very difficult.

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